I read several dozen stories a year from miserable, lonely guys who insist that women won’t come near them despite the fact that they are just the nicest guys in the world.

..I’m asking what do you offer? Are you smart? Funny? Interesting? Talented? Ambitious? Creative? OK, now what do you do to demonstrate those attributes to the world? Don’t say that you’re a nice guy — that’s the bare minimum.

“Well, I’m not sexist or racist or greedy or shallow or abusive! Not like those other douchebags!”

I’m sorry, I know that this is hard to hear, but if all you can do is list a bunch of faults you don’t have, then back the fuck away..

..Don’t complain about how girls fall for jerks; they fall for those jerks because those jerks have other things they can offer. “But I’m a great listener!” Are you? Because you’re willing to sit quietly in exchange for the chance to be in the proximity of a pretty girl (and spend every second imagining how soft her skin must be)? Well guess what, there’s another guy in her life who also knows how to do that, and he can play the guitar. Saying that you’re a nice guy is like a restaurant whose only selling point is that the food doesn’t make you sick. You’re like a new movie whose title is This Movie Is in English, and its tagline is “The actors are clearly visible”.

David Wong, 6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person

This never gets old. 

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jesisdabes:

The Maine → throughout the years
in honor of Farewell Forever Halloween
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ineedtheirmusic:

@chuckcomeau: Great time meeting the #5SOS guys tonight at the#RoseBowl Great show mates! Thanks for having us and.

ineedtheirmusic:

@chuckcomeau: Great time meeting the #5SOS guys tonight at the#RoseBowl Great show mates! Thanks for having us and.

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New picture from the “SCENE Magazine” (x)
New picture from the “SCENE Magazine” (x)
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‏@Harry_Styles: I’m supporting @UN_Women and @EmWatson in #HeForShe As should you..

‏@Harry_Styles: I’m supporting @UN_Women and @EmWatson in #HeForShe As should you..

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medschoolapplicant:

today i’m wearing a nice dark shade of exhaustion under my eyes.

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There is no one that will be harder on Julian Casablancas than Julian Casablancas. Throughout the conversation, he refers to the “dead air” that precedes an answer he gives. He will stop speaking abruptly and declare his answers boring, and he will trip over himself in his general manner—and it’s helplessly endearing. There is also a profound division between the Julian Casablancas on the record and the one who converses while the tape recorder is off. He is an interested subject, but seemingly more interested in not being a subject. When he is not on the record, he’s curious and complimentary, and our conversation runs the gamut from shiitake mushrooms to nail polish. “Put a microphone in front of me…” he trails off, noting his own discomfort. Ironically, that’s what got him here in the first place
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binkshapiro:

this is the best thing i’ve ever seen

binkshapiro:

this is the best thing i’ve ever seen

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